May 11, 2012 | 
Author How to Conduct With Self-Confidence
How to Conduct With Self-Confidence
In his book “The Power of Persona Profiling”, Allan N. Mulholland demonstrate that ‘we can alter our lives by altering our Persona Profile’. Similar to a computer needing an operating system to allow the hard drive to perform at an optimum level, your mind also requires an ‘operating system’. In the vernacular of his book, this ‘operating system’ is referred to as your Persona Profile. But unless you are successful in most major areas of your life, your ‘old’ Persona Profile has failed you!
With the Power of Persona Profiling you will learn how to create a new Persona Profile that will:
i. Change the perception of who you are.
ii. Reclaim your true Identity
iii. Discover your Divine Purpose
In this article, Allan will show you how to conduct with self-confidence!
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As human beings, we all require a level of certainty in our lives. Without certainty, we would live in a constant state of chaos. We need to feel certain about the love and commitment from those who have pledged this to us – our spouse, our parents and our friends. We need to feel certain about our ability to support those who depend on us – our family and our community. And we need to feel certain about our Faith and our connection with our Creator.
But certainty at any level is constantly challenged by forces and events that our outside our control. We may suffer alienation of affection from a spouse. We may grieve the loss of a parent. A friend may turn on us. Our recent economic downturn has left many people without employment, depriving them of the means to provide adequate food and shelter for their dependents. Our faith is often undermined by zealot fundamentalists and false prophets.
Yet certainty should never be at the whim of elements over which we have little or no control! Politicians of all stripes hold out the promise of ‘hope’ for a better future. But ‘hope’ is the imitator of certainty! Hope creates the illusion of certainty! Hope is a conditional promise! Hope is a promise with a strong caveat – it may, or may not produce a desired result! With hope, there is no guaranty of success!
With hope there is no certainty of outcome!
Faith, on the other hand, is the creator of certainty! Faith is a commitment to certainty! Yet many people misunderstand the power and purpose of Faith. Oftentimes, Faith becomes just another metaphor for ‘hope’. We may put our Faith into something or someone, but our expectation for certainty remains conditional. We are often willing to put our Faith in others, yet we fail to reciprocate! Faith is never a one-way street. If we want to instill Faith in others, then we must first install Faith in ourselves! And while others may want to put their Faith in us, we cannot reciprocate their Faith in us without first creating a level of unequivocal Faith in ourselves!
Only when we have a level of unequivocal Faith in ourselves will we be able to put our Faith in others. If we want to feel certain about the love and commitment from our partner, spouse or friends, we must have the unequivocal Faith that our love for them is complete and unconditional. If we want certainty about our ability to provide for those who depend on us, we must have unequivocal Faith that we will find a way to do so. If we want to feel certain about our Faith and our connection with our Creator, we must reciprocate by creating an unequivocal Faith in ourselves.
And when we create an unequivocal Faith in ourselves, we can conduct with confidence. Without Faith, our self-confidence becomes an expression of arrogance. Without Faith, our boisterous bravado will be nothing more than a thinly disguised fear of failure. Without Faith we cannot have confidence!
Your new Persona Profile allows you to become ‘the person who would be self-confident’. However, before you can become ‘the person who would be self-confident’, you must first be defined and characterized as a self-confident person and not merely as arrogant or conceited. If your new Persona Profile does not exude confidence in the performance of its role as ‘the person who would be self-confident’, your performance will be judged as weak and inferior.
In a new relationship, a lack of self-confidence can be considered a weakness that can ultimately lead to an imbalance in the roles you and your new partner will play. If your Persona Profile is typecast to play a supporting role in the relationship, you are in for an unhappy and rocky ride! If, on the other hand, your new Persona Profile conducts itself with an air of confidence, you’re more likely share equal billing in your relationship!
When considering a career move or applying for a new job, the self-confident way in which you conduct yourself is key to getting the job. If your new Persona Profile shows a level of confidence in its ability to be ‘the person who would be the successful candidate’, your new employer will define and characterize that self-confidence as the intangible ‘third dimension’ in the application process that will give you the edge over the other candidates.
A business that doesn’t projects confidence is not running on all cylinders. Confidence in the market is the strongest determinant of stock value. Consumer confidence can build or destroy an economy! You will not be able to attract lenders and investors without the underlying confidence that your business is sound and profitable. No business can survive without the confidence of its target market!
An addiction is the antithesis of self-confidence. A dependency on drugs or alcohol hides a fear of failure. But just as success is the illusion where achievement is the reality, failure is the illusion where Faith is the reality.
“Faith and failure cannot cohabitate in the human spirit.”
~Allan N. Mulholland
You can cure any addiction by developing an addiction to the cure! You must become totally committed to beating the addiction. Your new Persona Profile must conduct itself with unwavering self-confidence in its ability to cure the addiction!
How self-confident are you that you can shed those extra pounds? There is no point in starting a weight loss program or a health & exercise regime if you’re not confident about the outcome.
And what about your Faith?
Is your Faith guiding your confidence or have you surrendered the outcome of your Spiritual Growth to zealot fundamentalists and false prophets?
You are born as a leader. A leader is quietly self-assured without being arrogant.
“There is no need for arrogance, when we have confidence!”
~Allan N. Mulholland
Followers, on the other hand, rely on the confidence of others to guide them and to ultimately decide their fate and future. If you previously depended on others to do your bidding, your new Persona Profile will create some profound and lasting changes in your life. Your new Persona Profile will take charge and be in control of your life.
“Faith is the creator of self-confidence.
Hope is the imitator of self-confidence.
Fear is the debilitator of self-confidence!”
~Allan N. Mulholland
Your Faith will allow you to conduct with self-confidence!
To become the person who is self-assured and successful!
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Allan N. Mulholland is the author of “The Power of Persona Profiling” and creator of PERSONA-COACH™, a unique and proprietary method of Life and Business Coaching that is fundamentally different from any other conventional coaching model. You can contact Allan via email atcoach@persona-coach.com
Allan is one of our contributor sponsors to our Sow A Seed of Self Confidence Tele Summit ~ you can signup for FREE at www.nancybattyementorseries-selfconfidence.com to recieve Allan’s generous gift offer and learn more !
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Are you Playing Small in Your Life Debbi Dachinger
Are You Playing Small In Your Life?
 Debbi Dachinger Dare to Dream
Playing small does not serve us or anyone else. Deep down you know this. Deep within you lives the spark of a big dream just waiting for you to let loose, to step into your greatness and the vastness of who you really are. If you told the whole truth to yourself – you’d have to admit that you have the capacity to be all that you were intended to be.
If you aren’t playing as big a game as you could be, think about this: Who are you inspired to serve? What realized dream would open your heart the most? What can you do to make your life feel joyful?
Many people dream of changing their lives but remain stuck in their current status. They hold themselves back by telling themselves their goals are unrealistic, and/or they tolerate dissatisfying situations because they feel undeserving of anything better. Each of us is born with tremendous potential, but it becomes buried beneath self-defeating patterns. It’s being trapped in a life full of excuses and frustration, instead of actively creating a life that you love. Living Big Living big means your inherent potential is liberated and you’re free to realize your greatest dreams. Living large means taking action to override old patterns, release your inner talents and gifts, and empower yourself to pursue your goals. How are you treating yourself? What kinds of messages are you sending to yourself? What kinds of relationships are you creating in your life? You are here at this time to embrace your greatness and follow your passions. Learn to live each day without limitations. Make your self-care and your deepest passions a priority. Do one new thing each day. Have new experiences, open your mind to new possibilities and begin to do things “out of the box.” Connect and talk with uplifting people, read inspiring literature, listen to inspiring radio shows like “Dare to Dream” on a weekly and daily basis, and post inspiring quotes in your home or office. Do whatever it takes to surround yourself with as many positives people and messages as you can and watch your life open up. Encourage yourself to expand. Take some time each day to tune into your inner voice. Listen to what resonates with you and what you truly enjoy. |
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Give yourself confidence to take action towards your purpose and start to build your self-esteem. Make what you say to yourself and how you treat yourself all about your dream self-esteem. Tell yourself: “You are amazing, talented and magnificent. You can do this.” Keep building your confidence to actively pursue your goal.
Jim Rohn, the Author and Speaker said:
“You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me reading? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming? Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay? Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.”
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Debbi Dachinger
Syndicated, Award-Winning Host of “Dare to Dream” Radio
Bestselling author of “DARE TO DREAM: This Life Counts!”
http://www.deborahdachinger.
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The Vision offering Mom and family a hiatus from the Challenge of disabilities | cerebral palsy
The Vision offering Mom and family a hiatus from the Challenge of disabilities
Tina born 1 lb 14 ozs
Christine born 2 lbs 4 ozs
As I look back and reflect on my life as a mother of three children, two of whom carry the diagnosis of Cerebral Palsy I begin to question what would have been the most effective means of support during the most difficult times.
My twin daughters particular were born 3 ½ months early and I underwent some extreme difficulties throughout the pregnancy. It was a very difficult birth and emergency C section is what granted these precious beings their physical presence.
Seven and a half weeks until I held either one of the girls for the very first time and even at that it was for a few minutes as not to disturb their need for rest due to their frail nature. The skin so transparent I could see their veins running clearly through their bodies.
It’s a time in my life that is very blurred with respect to the fine details of the trauma that took place, the events that occurred and the sequence of events that unfolded.
The overall picture is I gave birth to two incredibly fragile twin girls who are the very essence of what’s considered a miracle. Born 2 ½ pounds and 1 lb 14 ounces the girls each faced their own independent struggle to survive. Medical intervention being indeed the blessing that it is supported by my undying faith, belief and love for their survival brought each of these girls to the point that they were discharged after many months from the special care nursery.
With a marriage that was already on extremely shaky ground our abilities to step into a partnership as far as parents was not possible. Innately we both pulled in very different directions and my husband at the time is probably the first one to admit that parenting is just not his strong suit even if he hadn’t met such a challenging circumstance.
So life began very shortly after as a single mother of three young children, babes in arms as it’s said, and with the daily demands to provide for not only my own complete physical care, running a household, caring, loving and nurturing three children also providing complete physical care for all three of the kids I began this cycle of playing full out in the exertion of my physical energy in all areas of my life.
Over time my son who was my first born reached the developmental milestones that each parent looks forward to with anticipation, tremendous pride, and excitement. My daughters on the other hand did not. Their diagnosis given to me three weeks after their birth was that of Cerebral Palsy. The girls would not have the ability to walk or stand independently. In essence, no core body strength.
I really had no idea exactly what that would mean and I really didn’t project into the future to imagine the impact it would have in so many areas of not only my life, their life as well.
As time progressed the physical care became exhausting and physically debilitating for me to manage and cope with. Eventually I wasn’t strong enough to lift a set of car keys. I noticed at first that I was continually dropping things and putting the milk in the cupboard and the cleaners in the fridge. My physical exhaustion from sleepless nights and continual strain on physical needs for my body to maintain and lack of consistent nutritional food intake due to my focus being continually on the needs of the children.
In reflection I recognize the element of support would be the greatest gift I could have received. Had I received ongoing loving, encouraging, steady and inspiring support with the aid of an alternative to being the main caregiver twenty four seven I believe it would have supported me in releasing any guilt ridden thoughts of believing myself to have to be supermom. If I had an opportunity for someone else to provide the necessary care on occasions that would allow me a reprieve from the daily routine that was surrounded in love for myself and my children.
As most families do in similar circumstances I was lacking the financial provisions to provide the necessary equipment items that would have allowed me to lift the girls safely and with ease mechanically instead of the continual wear and tear on my own physical body. With the availability of a lift and sling system to transfer my ever growing children from wheelchair to bath, to bed and back to chair throughout the day and evening life would have been vastly different.
A typical day would see me doing up to eighty yes ,80 transfers a day between both the girls to meet all of their needs. I was also a person that was physically active and physically fit and from that perspective more than likely very fortunate that I was able to manage through as many years as I did before the physical exhaustion set in.
There are many aspects of raising the children as a single parent that I could easily expand into the reason and necessity for creating my vision, my heart’s desire as I’m about to share with you.
However for the purpose of this insight I’ll suffice to say that my vision for supporting other parents facing the challenges of disabilities comes from the personal insight and awareness of how having an alternative source of care for my daughters in a place that felt like home with people who really cared about them would have allowed me an opportunity to not only recoup and rest, it would have allowed me time and space to myself to provide self care, and it would have allowed a much needed space to develop all aspects of my life along with being more present for my son to meet his own deserving needs in our family structure.
The vision I’ve have set is for the NCTC Battye Family Inspired Living Resort. Imagine what this would be like; A safe, nurturing, fully inclusive, accessible, learning and teaching center a home away from home for youth and young adults with physical disabilities can enjoy, fun, adventure, camaraderie with friends, while having all of their physical care needs attended to in a respectful and dignified manner!
The resort would create an opportunity for participants to engage fully in life with activities that stimulate and excite their creative imaginations, opportunities to explore who they, challenge themselves to new experiences, and create lasting relationships with friends and community.
A year round fully inclusive, accessible, learning, teaching and adventure center to support and maintain the integrity of the natural family facing the challenges of disabilities.
The NCTC Battye Family Inspired Living Resort will be entertaining their first guests January 21st, 2013. This is my vision and I’m excited to share it with the world knowing that it allows me a space in which to serve and support other families facing similar challenges that I have experienced.
Loving intentions
Nancy Battye
“Big Heart gets Attention of Those Who are Bullies”
“Big Heart gets Attention of Those Who are Bullies”
Shelley Hana
Have you ever done Karaoke without the words flashing up on the screen, to a song that you don’t know? What if you knew the words weren’t going to be up on the screen, maybe just the music, and you also knew that you did not know the words to the song, would you still get up there on that stage? Would you have the confidence to do that, and know that it would just work out, and everyone would have a good time?
Well, that was the case with myself and my friend in my Grade 1 class many years ago. It was Show and Tell Time, and our teacher liked to have students get up and perform in front of the class if they had nothing particular to Show or Tell. Lots of the children would rehearse a song, just for a chance in the spotlight. Back then, you kind of liked the spotlight and hadn’t got to that shy, embarrassed teenage wasteland stage.
My friend in the class, put her hand up and told the teacher, “we have a song!” and dragged me up in front of the class. Had we rehearsed? No. Did we have the words on a Karaoke screen in front of us? No. But somehow the love of performing drove my friend to raise her hand and volunteer herself , and myself, to perform au natural. And we had the confidence to do it. Was it a smash hit? I suspect not, but the thrill of it still sits in my memory now, and that feeling of excitement and confidence that I could just step out on a limb and accept the outcome, to fly or fall, is still sitting there.
Where does that sort of confidence go when we get older and find ourselves in much stickier situations than a Grade 1 class performance? Does are heart get over-ridden with our head’s suspicions that our true self may not be a class act? I think our head, our mind, our ego mind as it is often called, really can grab the steering wheel, and drive us into the ditch.
Following our true heart nature, our true self, our centred wholeness means that we already know that whatever the outcome to our choice, we can manage it. That feeling of wholeness, stillness, and knowing who I truly am, and that I am not meant to be perfect in all that I try and do, is the feeling of confidence, in my books. Confidence often goes hand in hand with Courage, because sometimes we may have Confidence but still some doubts and fears, being human as we are, but, we take our Confidence and Courage and do what we believe is the right choice, anyway, despite the fears. Really, Confidence and Courage are two blooms in the same garden, as they nourish each other, and go so well together.
I hope I have repeated that same level of confidence and courage in my life as I did that day in Grade 1 Show and Tell class. I hope that was a template for my life, and in some ways it probably was. I furthered my education as a single parent, getting up and performing so to speak for my classes despite the difficulty of the situation, among some other choices. That drive to go for your goals in life is your heart speaking, and that’s when your heart is bigger than your head. Listening to your heart’s passion and drive is the natural birthplace for confidence. Each time you practice it, your heart gets a little bigger, and will take you places you can only imagine. Even in front of an audience without a clue, but having a great time doing it.
Shelley Hanna www.travellingomlife.com
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“However every day Sheila keeps doing the work to offer herself a Personal Yes And after hearing each No she” Jason Freeman
“However every day Sheila keeps doing the work to offer herself a Personal Yes And after hearing each No she”
Heroic Yes! Productions Jason Freeman
I believe that the core of healthy self-confidence is about choosing the goodness of who you are and saying a strong “Yes” to the core value of your life on a daily basis, no matter what the circumstances. Being able to offer yourself this “Yes” is truly an inside job. This is your “Personal Yes.” No one can offer your “Personal Yes” to you, and no one can take it away.
I invite you to reflect on these questions for a few minutes before reading on:
What thoughts and words do you use to strengthen your “Personal Yes” on a daily basis?
What actions do you choose to participate in to strengthen the “Personal Yes” on a daily basis?
While your “Personal Yes” depends on you, how other people respond to the requests that you make of them depends largely on them.
Sometimes you hear people tell you “Yes” in response to your requests. At these times you probably feel like jumping up and down and celebrating….
And, alas, sometimes people tell you “NO.” They can tell you “No” in regards to a minor matter like the waiter saying, “No” when you ask for your favorite dish because it has been taken off the menu. People can also tell you “NO” to a matter of more importance like human resources phoning say “No” in regards to the job application.
When you hear “NO,” it does have a consequence, whether the consequence is that you now have to choose something new on the menu or whether that consequence is that you now have to apply for more jobs.
While dealing with the consequences of a “No” might be inconvenient and take time, I believe that the pain of hearing somebody tell us “No” primarily comes because we use their “No” as a reason to change our “Personal Yes” to a “Personal No.”
And aside from being painful, offering yourself a “Personal No” can create all manner of mischief in your daily life.
On the other hand, if when you hear somebody tell you “No,” and you immediately do the self-care necessary to shore up your “Personal Yes,” you free yourself to move forward and make requests of different people until you hear someone say, “YES.” When you hear them say “YES” it feels natural because it lines up with the “Personal Yes” that you have been telling yourself.
For example, Sheila is conducting an extensive job search because she knows she is qualified to be the CEO of a mid-level company. During this time of applying and interviewing, she does the daily work she needs to do to offer herself a “Personal Yes.” Circumstances don’t seem to necessarily go Sheila’s way. The first seventeen companies she applies at tell her “NO.”
SEVENTEEN COMPANIES TELL SHEILA NO!
However every day, Sheila keeps doing the work to offer herself a “Personal Yes.” And after hearing each “No,” she immediately offers herself a “Personal Yes.” Does the thought of being frustrated and even giving up on the job hunt pass through her mind? Sure it does! Sheila is human.
However, she knows that while frustration and self-doubt are natural emotions, feeling frustrated and contemplating giving-up will not help her land the “Yes Job Offer” that lines up with her “Personal Yes.”
Then after six months of job searching, the eighteenth company calls to tell her “YES,” they would love to hire her as the CEO of their company. And as icing on the cake this “Yes” seems natural to Sheila because it lines up with the “Personal Yes” that she has been offering herself all along.
Like Sheila, consider developing the joyful practice of offering yourself a “Personal Yes” each day. Then as you make requests of people, instead of sweating the “no’s” wait for the “Yes” response that lines up with your “Personal Yes.”
Heroic Yes! Productions
Inspirational Speaker, Writer, Founder
Website- http://heroicyesproductions.
Phone- 619-823-8536
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5 Keys to increase Self Confidence ~ Pragito Dove
5 Keys to Unleash Your Self-Confidence
by Pragito Dove
Pragito Dove
Self-confidence is a deeply-rooted feeling that we are ok, that we are loved, that we matter…that what we say, do and feel…matters.
When we are missing this key ingredient, life can be hell. So, let’s turn the hell into heaven right now with these 5 keys that work to unleash your self-confidence, joy and creativity. And here’s the good news: your self-confidence is already in there, just waiting to be freed up and expressed.
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Laugh, a lot, every day!
Laughter is the first key because this is the easiest way to get your self-confidence going. You get a powerful kick-start from laughter to get positive energy flowing. Make a deliberate practice of bringing more laughter into your life, every day. You might have to “fake it ‘til you make it”, at the beginning, but soon laughter flows naturally and spontaneously. Every child is born full of laughter, and that includes you. Laughter provides many dimensions of benefits for your body, mind, heart and soul. It erases fear(you can’t laugh and be afraid at the same time!), unleashes your innate joy and creativity, and enhances all your relationships, not to mention bringing fun, relaxation and love into your world.
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Meditate!
Practice the laughter meditation. Stage one:laughter. Stage two: sit in silence. This is the easiest way to get into meditation and combines with the first key! The powerful effect of the laughter in stage one helps you drop deeper down, in the second stage, to discover the inner wisdom, silence and stillness that reside within you. As a result love, peace, creativity, joy, self-respect, and self-love arise, naturally and spontaneously. Your self-confidence is innate in these qualities. You find the wisdom to know that what you say, do, and feel does matter. You don’t need another person to tell you, you just know.
Then, whatever other people’s opinions are, YOU know that you have something special to offer the world and your presence here is important.We all matter.
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Love Yourself!
Loving yourself is much easier once you have started your laughter meditation practice. Love arises naturally from laughter. In fact, laughter IS love, isn’t it? When we laugh, we open our hearts and are in loving communion with others, and with ourselves. Try it! Notice how you feel; notice how your own self-judgment is erased; notice how other people’s judgments are dissolved;and notice how your inner joy arises and fills you to overflowing with love,creativity, and a positive outlook. What we focus on expands. Keep your focus on loving yourself no matter what, and your self-confidence will soar. It’s true!!
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Love others!
A natural outcome of loving ourselves is loving others. However, loving ourselves has to be the first step. We must fill up our own well first, then loving others naturally comes from our overflow. However, pay attention:loving others more than yourself creates resentment which grows like a cancer within you. And I am not saying don’t love others, I am saying keep a BALANCE and make sure the scales are tipped in your favor. The more selfish you are, the more you have to give. This might not be in alignment with what you were taught. For centuries women, in particular, have been conditioned that everyone else in the household is more important. It’s time to reverse that thinking and step into respecting yourself enough so that you know you deserve love as much as others. You cannot love others if you don’t love yourself.
5. Follow Your Passion!
Whatever your passion is, do it! There is nothing that sparks your self-confidence more than immersing yourself in what turns you on, what brings you joy. The activity doesn’t matter so much as your quality of presence and joy with the activity. It cannot be something that someone else thinks you should enjoy, it has to come from YOU. And it can be anything from scrap-booking, to roller skating, to travel, to studying Chinese. Throw yourself into your passion and miracles happen. It can be your work or it can be something you only do at weekends, as a hobby. It doesn’t matter. What matters is that you are enjoying yourself, coming alive, getting to know what makes you tick.
Your self-confidence will soar!
Implementing these 5 keys transforms your life into heaven on earth. Do it…and let me know.
For more information on the laughter meditation and Pragito’s work www.discovermeditation.com
Pragito is one of our amazing Speakers in our Sow A Seed of Self Confidence ~ Spark Your Ultimate Success FREE Tele Summit March 1st – August 9th
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“I celebrate each of you incredibly powerful women and especially those who are waiting in the wings feeling a stirring” | woman
“I celebrate each of you incredibly powerful women and especially those who are waiting in the wings feeling a stirring”
She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens.
Women amaze men !
She holds happiness, love and opinions.
She smiles when she feels like screaming.
She sings when she feels like crying, cries when she’s happy and laughs when she’s afraid.
Her love is UNCONDITIONAL!
There’s only one thing wrong with her,
SHE SOMETIMES FORGETS WHAT’S SHE’S WORTH
I celebrate each of you incredibly powerful women and especially those who are waiting in the wings, feeling a stirring, sensing an unrest and yet not sure if they have the confidence and belief in them self to step fully into owning who they are meant to be.
Trust yourself, I as many have sat in the shadows of my own self doubt, lack of self worth, fear, and unkind thoughts that I’ve berated myself with, thinking who am I to expect or assume anything more than I’ve already chosen to experience.
Who am I not to live up to the expectations of those around me to try to convince myself down deep that if only I were perfect in each role that I’ve assigned for myself in life I would be loved.
The perfect mother, daughter, wife, employee, business person or whatever. If only I were perfect then……………….I would be loved. However by who? Who was it I was searching for to be loved by? Who are we all searching for to be loved by? Why are we searching? Does the search need to continue? Why do we choose to seek outside of ourselves? Are we willing to trust enough within ourselves to know that we have the answers within? I continually ask myself this each day? I’m experiencing and trusting that I do have the answers. That each of us does.
Perhaps the task is to break down in small steps daily to allow to surrender to hold that space of the belief that we could and actually are called to a greatness far larger than we see on the outside.
The spark is within each of us. Do we dare to ignite it? Are we prepared for the consequences?
What are the consequences?
Love, plain simple pure unconditional accepting love.
Mmmmmhh………….are you willing to step out of yourself only to discover yourself?
I love you as does the world
Nancy
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“A Rose blooms from a rose bulb A Rose is happy to be a rose It does not yearn to”~ Suzy Manning CEO SIZZZL | women
“A Rose blooms from a rose bulb A Rose is happy to be a rose It does not yearn to”
Suzy Manning
A Rose blooms from a rose bulb. A Rose is happy to be a rose. It does not yearn to be a tulip or daffodil or any of the thousands of other flowers that paint our landscape. A rose does not compare itself to other flowers and wish to be something it is not. How many of us are comfortable evolving as our authentic self to stand out in a crowd proclaiming, “This is who I am and I am proud to be ME”. Too many of us drain our life force energy daily trying to live up to someone else’s idea of who we should be.
Words of wisdom from Suzy Manning SIZZZL, Powerful Women Who Ignite the World! A transitional coach, healer, speaker, author, radio show host who is dedicated and passionate about helping women live and lead from their true authentic self.
Her expertise is helping women in transition create a solid unshakable foundation within them to design lives and businesses from inspiration, inner wisdom, and a place of service.
I had the privilege of sharing a powerful interview with Suzy in our Sow a Seed of Self Confidence – Spark Your Ultimate Success Tele Summit that’s currently running from March 1st – July 31st with 47 incredibly powerful world thought and spiritual leaders.
Suzy shared with us her own journey of waking up while in college and her reflection in life that drew her to a place of committing to making better, more supportive and loving free will choices of who she wanted to live and show up in the world as her true authentic self.
We spoke about why we want to fit in so badly, how we discover our purpose in life, the true deep meaning of gratitude and the real gifts it brings to our lives.
In recognition of International Woman’s Day in such a transformational year on the planet we spoke about the shift that’s currently happening, the speed by which change is affected and our roles and responsibilities in caring for the planet at this time.
The effects and benefit of the feminine energy shift that’s occurring and the deep seeded sense of self and unconditional love for ourselves and others and the impact it has on the world.
Suzy is passionate about who each of us is. She’s passionate about who she is and she stands powerfully with love, respect and honor for her talents, abilities, gifts, and uniqueness and she asks the question are we willing to do it for ourselves?
If you haven’t already listened to this interview, I gently nudge you to invest lovingly in yourself to do so and be inspired, moved by Spirit to recognize the glory of who you are.
Namaste
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